Day 10 2013 - Agony Aunt

Charging mountains

Today I was at UCA from half 8 to half 5 :) 9 hours of working and I'm exhausted!

I've finally sorted out my sketchbook and almost up-to-date. (If you haven't read the previous posts, basically I'm doing a textiles project about flowers which I had to start over the christmas break. However when I went back to UCA (University for the Creative Arts), I got told that my work wasn't good enough, so... yeah :( Had to start all over again -.-)

I feel so much more at ease! Its awesome what you can achieve if you put your mind to it :)

Plus, I've actually made the effort to get up early and stay after uni later so... maybe a new sense of maturity has appeared.


The difference between a tool-bag/stupid/idiotic/grrrrr ex boyfriend and my ex boyfriend

Setting the records straight

I know I've mentioned my previous relationship a little throughout the blog but this is something quite different!

Right at this moment, I still care about my ex boyfriend but its now turned into a good friend relationship which is pretty great :) We still speak on facebook and have a laugh, and I don't feel upset anymore. I've learnt so much about myself from him and hopefully I'll one day be better within the next relationship.

I think if you've also got out of a relationship and you've turned into good friends instead of hating on each other, you had a good one! Clearly you're a lot more stronger and mature than you thought and its always great to start fresh. Life is full of new beginnings and lessons learnt. <3

"Don't be sad because it ended, smile because it happened" Dr Seuss. :)

If you've got an ex boyfriend who is being a douche, forget him! Clearly he wasn't the right one and needs a few more years to grow up. But don't wait for him!

Life Goes On and you have to as well.

Girlie Advice!

Take a couple of days of releasing all your feelings onto a bit of paper. This piece of paper represents your relationship - write down everything you liked and didn't like about the relationship. Let yourself get upset and then throw the piece of paper into the past represented by the bin.

Its always good to look yourself in the mirror and question what you disliked about yourself in the relationship. Were you the person you wanted to be? Is there anything you wanted to do which you couldn't?

Don't see being single as being lonely. See it as freedom to find your true person, and do the stuff you wanted to do. If you don't like the way you are now, how do you expect anyone to like the true you if they can't see it?

Get hooked on a hobby, think about what you want to do with your life and take charge of it right now! Dress the way you want, listen and read what you want. Be your own person and who you really are, and not what other people expect you to be.

Once you get on that path, your adventure and fresh beginning starts :)
Never give up <3

I'm on that path now :)

Sophia x